Building Others Up: Attacking Zero Sum Thinking at Its Source

Web of the Magi: Cross-Purposes in Polyamorous Relationship Systems

Erotica Lives in the Taboo: Yeah Buts and the Ugly Place

You’re Never in the Way: Nothing to Fix, Nothing to Replace

PQ 8.11 — Am I afraid that anyone my partner has sex with will try to persuade her to leave me?

PQ 8.10 — Am I afraid that if my partner has sex with someone else, she will start comparing me whenever we have sex?

The Difference Between Sex Geekery and Dirty Talk: Arousal and Poor Boundaries

When You’re in a Long Distance Relationship…in the Same Town

Real Cheating Is Not Honoring Social Reciprocity: Hypocrisy and Lopsided Consideration

I Love You, But I Can’t Tell You: A Hyperromantic Lament